postfix
From Glee
Queue
Checking
mailq
Deleting
Deleting a single message from the queue :
postsuper -d <id> # Seen in the mailq output
Deleting multiple messages from the queue, based on their content (fragile and ugly, but effective) :
for file in /var/spool/postfix/deferred/*/*; do id=`basename $file` grep "This is the string I'm looking for" $file && postsuper -d $id done